Twelve Steps are a group of principles, spiritual in their nature, which, if practiced as a way of life, can expel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to become happily and usefully whole.
Many
of us, upon first seeing those words, asked ourselves the question
"Can it be just that simple?" -- and then heard a voice
inside us answer "Yes."
Bill's
application of AA principles to ever-changing circumstances was
another of his remarkable talents. Day in and day out, letters would
arrive at his desk asking for his "last word" on a matter
of AA policy. And, in answer after answer Bill would fall back upon
the basic principles of AA's three Legacies, tempered by wisdom,
humor, perspective, and regard for the feelings of others.
One
warm example occurred in 1968 when a well-meaning AA wrote to Bill,
in deep concern, about an influx of youthful hippies or flower
children to local AA groups, along with their distinctive manner of
dress, sexual mores, and other unorthodox behavior, including the use
of drugs. The writer feared that this particular invasion might be "a
very real threat to our wonderful, God-given program."
Bill's
reply was typical of his use of AA principles to meet new challenges.
"Your
letter about the hippie problem, so-called, was mighty interesting to
me. I doubt that we need to be alarmed about this situation, because
there have been precedents out of the past. All sorts of outfits have
tried to move in on us, including communists and heroin addicts,
prohibitionists and do-gooders of other persuasions.
"Nearly
all of these people, who happened to have an individual problem with
alcohol, not only failed to change AA, but, in the long run, AA
changed them. I have a number of them among my closest friends today,
and they are among the best AA's I know.
"You
also have some people who are not alcoholics, but are addicts of
other kinds. A great many AA's have taken pity on these people, and
have actually tried to make them full-fledged AA's. Of course, their
identification with alcoholics is no good at all, and the groups
themselves easily stop this practice in the normal course of AA
affairs.
"Thoughtful
AA's, however, encourage these sponsors to bring addicts to open
meetings, just as they would any other interested people. In the end,
these addicts usually gravitate to other forms of therapy. They are
not received on the platform in open meetings unless they have an
alcohol problem, and closed meetings are, of course, denied them. We
know that we cannot do everything for everybody with an addiction
problem.
"There
has also occurred lately a new development centering upon hippies who
have LSD or marijuana troubles -- not so much stronger stuff. Many of
these kids appear to be alcoholics also, and they are flocking into
AA, often with excellent results.
"Some
weeks ago, there was a young people's convention of AA's. Shortly
thereafter, four of these kids visited the office. I saw one young
gal prancing down the hall, hair flying, in a mini-skirt, wearing
love beads and the works. I thought, 'Holy smoke, what now!' She told
me she was the oldest member of the young people's group in her area
-- age twenty-two! They had kids as young as sixteen. I was curious
and took the whole party out to lunch.
"Well,
they were absolutely wonderful. They talked (and acted) just about as
good a kind of AA as I've seen anywhere. I think all of them said
they had had some kind of drug problem, but had kicked that, too.
When they first came around, they had insisted on their own ideas of
AA, but in the end they found AA plenty good enough as it was. Though
they needed their own meetings, they found interest and inspiration
in the meetings of much older folks as well.
"Perhaps,
as younger people come into AA, we shall have to put up with some
unconventional nonsense -- with patience and good humor, let's hope.
But it should be well worth the attempt. And also, if various hippie
addicts want to form their own sort of fellowship along AA lines, by
all means let us encourage them. We need deny them only the AA name,
and assure them that the rest of our program is theirs for the taking
and using -- any part or all of it.
"For
these reasons, I feel hopeful and not a bit scared by this trend. Of
course, I'm no prophet. I may be mistaken, so please keep me posted.
This is a highly interesting and perhaps significant development. I
certainly do not think it ought to be fought. Instead, it ought to be
encouraged in what we already know to be workable channels.
In
affection ... Bill"
©
AA Grapevine, March 1971
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