(provided by Bailey G)
The
third tradition is a sweeping statement indeed; it takes in a lot of
territory. Some people might think it is too idealistic to be
practical. It tells every alcoholic in the world that he may become,
and remain a member of Alcoholic Anonymous so long as he says so. In
short, Alcoholics Anonymous has no membership rule.
Why
is this so? Our answer is simple and practical.
Even
in self protection, we do not wish to erect the slightest barrier
between ourselves and the fellow alcoholic who still suffers. We know
that society has been demanding that he conform to its laws and
conventions. But the essence of his alcoholic malady is the fact that
he has been unable or unwilling to conform to either the laws of man
or God. If he is anything, the sick alcoholic is a rebellious
nonconformist. How well we understand that; every member of
Alcoholics Anonymous was once a rebel himself. Hence we cannot offer
to meet him at any half way mark.
We
must enter the dark cave where he is and show him that we understand.
We realize that he is altogether too weak and confused to jump
hurdles. If we raise obstacles, he might stay away and perish. He
might be denied his priceless opportunity.
So
when he asks, "Are there any conditions?" We joyfully
reply, "no not a one." When skeptically he comes back
saying, "But certainly there must be things that I have to do
and believe," We quickly answer, "in Alcoholics Anonymous
there are no musts."
That
comes from the February 1948 Grapevine ©
Of
course it is Bill W's writing
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