A - I cannot fully answer that question. Many A.A. techniques have been adopted after a ten-year period of trial and error, which has led to some interesting results. But, as laymen, we doubt our own ability to explain them. We can only tell you what we do, and what seems, from our point of view, to happen to us.
At
the very outset we should like it made ever so clear that A.A. is a
synthetic gadget, as it were, drawing upon the resources of medicine,
psychiatry, religion, and our own experience of drinking and
recovery. You will search in vain for a single new fundamental. We
have merely streamlined old and proven principles of psychiatry and
religion into such forms that the alcoholic will accept them. And
then we have created a society of his own kind where he can
enthusiastically put these very principles to work on himself and
other sufferers.
Then
too, we have tried hard to capitalize on our one great natural
advantage. That advantage is, of course, our personal experience as
drinkers who have recovered. How often the doctors and clergymen
throw up their hands when, after exhaustive treatment or exhortation,
the alcoholic still insists, "But you don't understand me. You
never did any serious drinking yourself, so how can you? Neither can
you show me many who have recovered."
Now,
when one alcoholic who has got well talks to another who hasn't, such
objections seldom arise, for the new man sees in a few minutes that
he is talking to a kindred spirit, one who understands. Neither can
the recovered A.A. member be deceived, for he knows every trick,
every rationalization of the drinking game. So the usual barriers go
down with a crash. Mutual confidence, that indispensable of all
therapy, follows as surely as day does night. And if this absolutely
necessary rapport is not forthcoming at once it is almost certain to
develop when the new man has met other A.A.s. Someone will, as we
say, "click with him."
As
soon as that happens we have a good chance of selling our prospect
those very essentials which you doctors have so long advocated, and
the problem drinker finds our society a congenial place to work them
out for himself and his fellow alcoholic. For the first time in years
he thinks himself understood and he feels useful; uniquely useful,
indeed, as he takes his own turn promoting the recovery of others. No
matter what the outer world thinks of him, he knows he can get well,
for he stands in the midst of scores of cases worse than his own who
have attained the goal. And there are other cases precisely like his
own -- a pressure of testimony which usually overwhelms him. If he
doesn't succumb at once, he will almost surely do so later when
Barleycorn builds a still hotter fire under him, thus blocking off
all his other carefully planned exits from dilemma.
The
speaker recalls seventy-five failures during the first three years of
A.A. -- people we utterly gave up on. During the past seven years
sixty-two of these people have returned to us, most of them making
good. They tell us they returned because they knew they would die or
go mad if they didn't. Having tried everything else within their
means and having exhausted their pet rationalizations, they came back
and took their medicine. That is why we never need to evangelize
alcoholics. If still in their right minds they come back, once they
have been well exposed to A.A.
Now
to recapitulate, Alcoholics Anonymous has made two major
contributions to the programs of psychiatry and religion. These are,
it seems to us, the long missing links in the chain of recovery:
1.
Our ability, as ex-drinkers, to secure the confidence of the new man
-- to "build a transmission line into him."
2.
The provision of an understanding society of ex-drinkers in which the
newcomer can successfully apply the principles of medicine and
religion to himself and others.
So
far as we A.A.s are concerned, these principles, now used by us every
day, seem to be in surprising agreement. (N.Y. State J. Med.,Vol.44,
Aug. 15, 1944).
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- On the surface A.A. is a thing of great simplicity, yet at its core
a profound mystery. Great forces surely must have been marshaled to
expel obsessions from all these thousands, an obsession which lies at
the root of our fourth largest medical problem and which, time out of
mind, has claimed its hapless millions. (N.Y. State J. Med., Vol. 50,
July 1950.)
Bill
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