These questions were
originally published in the AA Grapevine in conjunction with a series
on the 12 Traditions that began in November 1969 and ran through
September 1971. While they were originally intended primarily for
individual use, many AA groups have since used them as a basis for
wider discussion.
Tradition One: Our
common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A.
unity.
1. Am I in my group a
healing, mending, integrating person, or am I divisive? What about
gossip and taking other members inventories?
2. Am I a peacemaker?
Or do I, with pious preludes such as "just for the sake of
discussion," plunge into arguments.
3. Am I gentle with
those who rub me the wrong way, or am I abrasive.
4. Do I make
competitive remarks, such a comparing one group with another or
contrasting A.A. in one place with AA in another?
5. Do I put down some
A.A. activities as if I were superior for not participating in this
or that aspect of A.A.?
6. Am I informed about
A.A. as a whole? Do I support, in every way I can A.A. as a whole or
just the parts I understand and approve of?
7. Am I as considerate
of A.A. members as I want them to be of me?
8 Do I spout platitudes
about love while indulging in and secretly justifying behavior that
bristles with hostility?
9. Do I go to enough
A.A. meetings or read enough A.A. literature to really keep in touch?
10. Do I share with
A.A. all of me, the bad and the good, accepting as well as giving the
help of fellowship.
Reprinted from
November 1969 Grapevine©
Tradition Two: For our
group purpose there is but one ultimate authority - a loving God as
he may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but
trusted servants; they do not govern
1. Do I criticize or do
I trust and support my group officers, A.A. committees, and office
workers? newcomers? old-timers?
2. Am I absolutely
trustworthy, even in secret, with A.A. twelfth step jobs or other
A.A. responsibility?
3. Do I look for credit
in my A.A. jobs? praise for my A.A. ideas?
4. Do I have to save
face in group discussion, or can I yield in good spirit to the group
consensus and work cheerfully along with it?
5. Although I have been
sober a few years, am I still willing to serve my turn at A.A.
chores?
6. In group
discussions, do I sound off about matters on which I have no
experience and little knowledge?
Reprinted from
December 1969 Grapevine ©
Tradition Three: The
only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking.
1 . In my mind, do I
prejudge some new A.A. members as losers?
2. Is there some kind
of alcoholic whom I privately do not want in my A.A. group?
3. Do I set myself up
as a judge of whether a newcomer is sincere or phony?
4. Do I let language,
religion (or the lack of it), race, education, age, or other such
things interfere with my carrying the message?
5. Am I over impressed
by a celebrity? By a doctor, a clergyman, an ex-convict? Or can I
just treat this new member simply and naturally as one more sick
human, like the rest of us?
6. When someone turns
up at A.A., needing information or help (even if he can't ask for it
aloud), does it really matter to me what he does for a living? Where
he lives? What his domestic arrangements are? Whether he has been to
A.A. before? What his other problems are?
Reprinted from
January 1970 Grapevine ©
Tradition Four: Each
group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups
or A.A. as a whole.
1. Do I insist that
there are only a few right ways of doing things in A.A.?
2. Does my group always
consider the welfare of the rest of A.A.? Of nearby groups? Of loners
in Alaska? Of internationalists miles from port? Of a group in Rome
or El Salvador?
3. Do I put down other
members behavior when it is different from mine, or do I learn from
it?
4. Do I always bear in
mind that, to those outsiders who know I am in A.A. may I to some
extent represent our entire beloved fellowship?
5. Am I willing to help
a newcomer go to any lengths - his lengths, not mine- to stay sober?
6. Do I share my
knowledge of A.A. tools with other members who may not have heard of
them?
Reprinted from April
1970 Grapevine ©
Tradition Five: Each
group has but one primary purpose - to carry its message to the
alcoholic who still suffers.
1. Do I ever cop out by
saying, " I'm not a group, so this or that Tradition doesn't
apply to me"?
2. Am I willing to
explain firmly to a newcomer the limitations of A.A. help, even if he
gets mad at me for not giving him a loan?
3. Have I today imposed
on any A.A. member for a special favor or consideration simply
because I am a fellow alcoholic?
4. Am I willing to
twelfth-step the next newcomer without regard to who or what is in it
for me?
5. Do I help my group
in every way I can to fulfill our primary purpose?
6. Do I remember that
A.A. old-timers, too, can be alcoholics who still suffer? Do I try to
help them and to learn from them?
Reprinted from June
1970 Grapevine ©
Tradition Six: An AA
group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the A.A. name to any
related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
1. Should my fellow
group members and I raise money to endow several A.A. beds in our
local hospital?
2. Is it good for a
group to lease a small building?
3 Are all the officers
and members of our local club for A.A.'s familiar with "Guidelines
on Clubs" (which is available free from G.S.O)?
4. Should the secretary
of our group serve on the mayor's advisory committee on alcoholism?
5. Some alcoholics will
stay around A.A. only if we have a TV and card room. If this is what
is requires to carry the message to them, shouldn't we have these
facilities?
Reprinted from
August 1970 Grapevine ©
Tradition Seven: Every
AA group ought to be fully self- supporting, declining outside
contributions.
1. Honestly now, do I
do all I can to help A.A. (my group, my central office, my G.S.O)
remain self-supporting? Could I put a little more into the basket on
behalf of the new guy who can't afford it yet? How generous was I
when tanked in a barroom?
2. Should the Grapevine
sell advertising space to book publishers and drug companies, so it
could make a big profit and become a bigger magazine, in full color,
at a cheaper price per copy?
3. If G.S.O runs short
on funds some year, wouldn't be okay to let the government subsidize
AA groups in hospitals and prisons?
4. Is it more important
to get a big AA collection from a few people, or a smaller collection
in which more members participate?
5. Is a groups
treasurer's report unimportant A.A. business? How does the treasurer
feel about it?
6. How important in my
recovery is the feeling of self respect, rather than the feeling of
being always under obligation for charity received.
Reprinted from June
1970 Grapevine ©
Tradition Eight -
Alcoholics Anonymous should remain forever non- professional, but our
service centers may employ special workers.
1. Is my own behavior
accurately described by the Traditions? If not, what needs changing?
2. When I chafe about
any particular Tradition, do I realize how it affects others.
3. Do I sometimes try
to get some reward - even if not money - for my personal A.A.
efforts.
4. Do I try to sound in
A.A. like an expert on alcoholism? On recovery? On medicine? On
sociology? On A.A. itself? On psychology? On spiritual matters? Or,
heaven help me, even on humility?
5. Do I make an effort
to understand what A.A. employees do? What workers in other
alcoholism agencies do? Can I distinguish clearly among them?
6. In my own A.A. life,
have I any experiences which illustrate the wisdom of this Tradition?
7. Have I paid enough
attention to the book TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS? To the
pamphlet "A.A. Tradition - How it Developed"?
Reprinted from
December 1970 Grapevine ©
Tradition Nine: A. A.
as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards
or committees directly responsible to those they serve.
1. Do I still try to
boss things in A.A.?
2. Do I resist formal
aspects of A.A. because I fear them as authoritative?
.3. Am I mature enough
to understand and use all elements of the A.A. program - even if no
one makes me do so - with a sense of personal responsibility?
4. Do I exercise
patience and humility in any A.A. job I take?
5. Am I aware of all
those to whom I am responsible in any A.A. job?
6. Why doesn't every
A.A. group need a constitution and bylaws?
7. Have I learned to
step out of an A.A. job gracefully - and profit thereby - when the
time comes?
8. What has rotation to
do with anonymity? With humility?
Reprinted from
February 1971 Grapevine ©
Tradition Ten:
Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A.
name ought never be drawn into public controversy.
1. Do I ever give the
impression that there really is an "A.A. opinion" on
Antabuse? Tranquilizers? Doctors? Psychiatrists? Churches? Hospitals?
Jails? Alcohol? The Federal or state government? Legalizing
marijuana? Vitamins? Al-Anon? Alateen?
2. Can I honestly share
my own personal experience concerning any of those without giving the
impression I am stating the " A.A opinion "?
3. What in A.A. history
gave rise to our Tenth Tradition?
4. Have I had a similar
experience in my own A.A. life?
5. What would A.A. be
without this Tradition? Where would I be?
6. Do I breach this or
any of its supporting Traditions in subtle, perhaps unconscious,
ways?
7. How can I manifest
the spirit of this Tradition in my personal life outside A.A.? Inside
A.A.?
Reprinted from the
May 1971 Grapevine©
Tradition Eleven: Our
public relations policy is based on attraction rather then promotion;
we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press,
radio, and films.
1. Do I sometimes
promote A.A. so fanatically that I make it seem unattractive?
2. Am I always careful
to keep the confidences reposed in me as an A.A. member?
3. Am I careful about
throwing A.A. names around - even within the Fellowship?
4. Am I ashamed of
being a recovered, or recovering, alcoholic?
5. What would A.A. be
like if we were not guided by the ideas in Tradition eleven? Where
would I be?
6. Is my A.A. sobriety
attractive enough that a sick drunk would want such a quality for
himself?
Reprinted from the
July 1971 Grapevine ©
Tradition Twelve:
Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever
reminding us to place principles before personalities.
1. Why is it a good
idea for me to place the common welfare of all A.A. members before
individual welfare? What would happen to me if A.A. as a whole
disappeared?
2. When I do not trust
A.A.'s current servants, who do I wish had the authority to
straighten them out?
3. In my opinions of
and remarks about other A.A.'s, am I implying membership requirements
other than a desire to stay sober?
4. Do I ever try to get
a certain A.A. group to conform to my standards, not its own?
5. Have I a personal
responsibility in helping an A.A. group fulfill its primary purpose?
What is my part?
6. Does my personal
behavior reflect the Sixth Tradition - or belie it?
7. Do I do all I can do
to support A.A. financially? When is the last time I anonymously gave
away a Grapevine subscription?
8. Do I complain about
certain A.A.'s' behavior - especially if they are paid to work for A
A? Who made me so smart?
9. Do I fulfill all
A.A. responsibilities in such a way as to please privately even my
own conscience? Really?
10. Do my utterances
always reflect the Tenth Tradition, or do I give A.A. critics real
ammunition?
11. Should I keep my
A.A. membership a secret, or reveal it in private conversation when
that may help another alcoholic (and therefore me)? Is my brand of A
A so attractive that other drunks want it?
12. What is the real
importance of me among 500,000 AA's?
Reprinted from the
September 1971 Grapevine ©
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