George E. Vaillant, M.D., joined AA's General Service Board as a Class A (nonalcoholic) trustee in 1998. He is professor of psychiatry, Harvard Medical School, director of the Study of Adult Development, Harvard University Health Services, and director of research in the Division of Psychiatry, Brigham and Women's Hospital. The author of The Natural History of Alcoholism Revisited, a comprehensive study of alcoholism, George lectures widely on alcoholism and addiction and is one of the foremost researchers in the field.
This article appeared originally on the AA Grapevine Magazine on May, 2001, Vol. 57, No. 12. Available on: http://www.aagrapevine.org. Reprinted with permission.
Grapevine:
In an article about alcoholism in Harvard Magazine, you were quoted
as saying that 50 percent of the people brought into emergency rooms
with fractures are there as a result of alcohol, but that
blood-alcohol levels are never checked. It made me curious about the
way medical professionals view alcoholism today. Can you tell us
something about that?
George
Vaillant: What happens in emergency rooms is actually much more
dramatic than that. Probably 50 percent of all the people brought
into emergency rooms had blood-alcohol levels over .25 - which is
enough to make any nondependent person comatose, not just prone to
accidents. And even though this is a clear biochemical fact staring
doctors in the face, no referral is made - nothing is done about it -
because when it comes to treating alcoholism, the medical profession
feels so helpless, so without hope. And for a doctor, feeling
powerless is reason enough to put his head in the sand.
Grapevine:
Why do you think that feeling persists?
George
Vaillant: You have to remember that very few doctors have ever
seen a recovered alcoholic. If you're recovered, you don't have any
reason to tell your doctor you're an alcoholic. And if you're not
recovered, you go back to see him a hundred times, so you're forever
etched in his memory. Consequently, doctors overcount the failures
and have no knowledge of the successes. They don't understand that 40
percent of all recovery has probably occurred through Alcoholics
Anonymous.
Grapevine:
What could be done to change that?
George
Vaillant: The two simplest ways that I know are both within the
power of the Fellowship. One is to take your doctor to open meetings
so he or she can see for themselves these well-dressed people in nice
suits who look like anybody else and have been in recovery for years.
It was terribly important for me to get inside of open meetings and
see sober alcoholics for myself because they're terribly inspiring.
The second is to twelfth-step your doctor - not to teach him about alcohol or Alcoholics Anonymous, but to give him a list of names that motivated patients could call. Doctors aren't experienced enough in their practices to find recovering alcoholics, so recovering alcoholics must either say "I will talk with patients," or give doctors referrals. What medical professionals need is a list of referral sources, clearly typed, and some success using those referrals, so they have hope rather than hopelessness.
Grapevine:
How did you, a nonalcoholic, get to know AA?
George
Vaillant: I was working for an alcohol clinic where it was a
condition of employment. I had to go to a meeting a month. In
addition, half the staff were recovering alcoholics, and they were
the first people whom I'd met at Harvard in ten years who knew
anything about the disease.
Grapevine:
Is there any movement afoot to establish that kind of requirement for
medical students today?
George
Vaillant: For the last ten years, medical students in many
medical schools have been required to go to one or two AA meetings,
due in large part to the activity of AA's CPC (Cooperation with the
Professional Community) committee. But the problem is that in your
first two meetings, there's so much going on that you don't always
get the feeling of, "My God, these people are recovering."
It's more about learning what a terrible disease alcoholism is and
not about realizing that the people in the meeting are the same
people you see in your emergency room with the fractures.
What
people are only slowly learning is that you can teach medical
students anything that's noble and good about people and they get it
right on the exam. But where medical students learn how to be doctors
is on the hospital wards and in the emergency rooms, where they're
working with residents. And interns, for very good reasons, hate
active alcoholics with a passion. Therefore, the educational program
has to begin again after residency. And that really is something
patients can do for their doctors - not by teaching them about AA,
but by telling their stories and offering whatever suits them of the
Twelve Steps. And, as I said, by giving them a number to call when
the roof is falling in.
Grapevine:
You said about 40 percent of the people who remain abstinent do
it through AA. What about the other 60 percent? Could we in AA be
more open, more supportive of these?
George
Vaillant: Yes. You know, if you're batting 400, it's all right to
miss a few. I think the fact that AA knows the answer to an extremely
complicated problem is probably all right.
But it doesn't hurt at the level of GSO for AA to have humility and understand that 60 percent do it without AA. It's also true that most of those 60 percent do it with the AA toolbox: their spirituality doesn't come from AA; their support group doesn't come from AA; and what I call "substitute dependency" doesn't come from AA. But they still use the same ingredients that AA uses.
And I
don't think there's anything that the other 60 percent are doing that
AA needs to learn from, except: "If it ain't broke, don't fix
it." If you meet someone who has stayed sober for more than
three years and they're pleased and boasting that they did it without
AA, thank your Higher Power for another recovery. You know, there's
"little" sobriety, being dry, and there's sobriety with a
big S, which includes humility and not thinking that you're the
center of the earth. So if someone is doing something without your
help, good enough.
Grapevine:
What have you discovered about AA since becoming a trustee? Or as you
put it, what if anything has made you say, "Aha!"
George
Vaillant: I'd never seen the General Service Manual before, and
to me as a nonalcoholic, it is a great piece of world literature,
like the American Constitution. It is a great contribution to human
thought.
I've
also learned something about spirituality. Every time there is a
board weekend, I arrive thinking, "Oh my God, this is another
weekend I'm not with my family." Then I spend the next two days
bathed in love and acceptance that is not from my being anyone
special. So I've learned another definition of spirituality: we are
each like the beautiful wave that's about to crash on the beach,
saying, "This is it. This is forever." Then a voice from
behind says, "Don't worry, son. You're not a wave; you're part
of the ocean."
Grapevine:
There is still a great deal of debate about the role of addicts in
AA. What are your views on that?
George
Vaillant:This is a terribly important question. AAs should focus
on alcoholism. They're right. They've got enough to do, and there are
enough alcoholics to go around in the world that they should never
fear for their primary purpose.
But
because there are a lot of people with mixed addictions, it's
important for individual groups that can tolerate them to be tolerant
and inclusive. There are some groups that welcome white, middle-aged
Protestant males. And that's okay; they should be there, even though
the rest of AA may regard them as hopeless dinosaurs and politically
incorrect. And there are other groups that tolerate people who spend
a little bit too much time talking about their $5-million cocaine
habit and not enough time talking about alcoholism. And that's the
wave of the future. There are increasingly fewer alcoholics. So some
groups are going to have to change.
Grapevine:
What are some of the other challenges that AA faces?
George
Vaillant: I think there are two, really. One is to come to some
meaningful terms with the individuals who are frightened that AA is a
religion. This will involve some work and growth in AA to incorporate
its diversity without losing its traditions. This is in keeping with
the question of keeping the first 164 pages that Bill W. wrote in the
Big Book and at the same time including contemporary stories about
things some groups might be horrified by.
The second challenge (and this may be more important to me as a class A trustee) is to convey to the world what an extraordinary organization Alcoholics Anonymous is - not only in its ability to cure alcoholism but in its ability to conceptualize the fact that we're all one planet.
Just as an example, groups that are supposed to know about human beings and to be peaceful - the Christian church, the psychoanalytic movement, and the peace movement - are constantly splintering and fighting with each other. And somehow for sixty years, AA has kept two million very diverse individuals, who in their past lives were often a lot less peaceful than the Christians, the psychoanalysts, and the advocates of peace, working together for a common good.
I'm
not sure that's a challenge to the Fellowship, or necessary to keep
people sober. It's simply to me a challenge that people appreciate
the depth of this message, which is expressed more in the Twelve
Traditions and Twelve Concepts that in the Twelve Steps.
Grapevine:
When you spoke of religious skeptics or of those fearful that AA
might have a religious agenda, were you thinking of professionals in
the field of alcoholism, or alcoholics themselves?
George
Vaillant: Oh, both. Alcoholics, because of the shame, are
enormously sensitive to exclusion. So to say, "If you want what
we have, you have to believe in a Higher Power; you have to be
spiritual, or you have to fake it till you make it" is
enormously threatening to some people. They're still at a point of
self-absorption; the idea of depending on a power greater than
themselves is something they're going to have to learn. Think of it
this way: there are a lot of things parents believe, like the value
of working hard and completing an education, that make no sense to an
eighteen-year-old. And for some alcoholics, spirituality is like one
of those things that you learn when you get older. AA has to
constantly remind itself that it needs to meet people where they are
and that it can only make loving suggestions.
Bill
W. spells out very clearly that Alcoholics Anonymous is not a
religion. And he makes it clear that there should be nothing about AA
that excludes anyone who's a suffering alcoholic. But how you get
people who've grown up in one tradition to understand how the world
looks to people who've grown up in another takes ongoing discussion.
Universality is very hard to achieve. And AA, in its effort of world
unity, is constantly having to evolve. It's not a question of
changing. It's a process of growth.
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2001, AA Grapevine Magazine, Inc., All Rights Reserved
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